Dresses and colors

Hi all,
            I am consumed with wedding thoughts. As I said previously, this is not my first wedding. The first time I got married my goal was to have a wedding and I went in to it blindly with no help and no Pintrist. This time means more to me because I am marrying the man I truly love. I really want it to be perfect.
           With all of that in mind I want to find the perfect dress. My criteria is complex. I want a dress that is elegant. I want it to sparkle. I do not want poofy. No crinoline. No mile long train. Believe it or not it is hard to find a dress with no poof. I went to the consignment shop and found nothing. I even went to Davids and found nothing. So now what do I do? Well I looked on line. Then I decided I cannot buy a dress I have never tried on.
            My next plan of action is to go to boutiques. If I find a dress I love I will look online for it. I am feeling kind of cheap. I do not care to spend a ton of money on something I wear once. I really think there should be shops that rent wedding dresses. I would happily just rent a dress.
I found an interesting article about buying the dress for less:

http://www.learnvest.com/2011/02/would-you-buy-a-used-wedding-dress/

It is a good read.
The subject of color:
Electric feusha pink and kind of light yellow?
I have decided that the attendants wear different shades of these colors. The decorations will be these colors, bit in slightly different shades.
I am also going to make all of flower arrangements and bouquets.

Okay. I am done going on and on with my scattered ideas.
Good night all :)
Cheers!